Tuesday, June 19, 2012

Special school for children with autism

This is one of the best news ever! On 18th June 2012, The Prime Minister’s wife, Datin Seri Rosmah Mansor suggested that a special school be set up for autistic children to help provide them with proper education so that they could receive proper learning and education. The Ivymount School in Rockville in the United States is to be used as a model for the set-up of Malaysian version of the school. She mentioned that she is willing to pave wave for setting up such school and the Social Welfare Dept. to advise on the implementation side.


Autism is a disorder of neural development, whereby the person with autism, or we called autistic person is characterized by severe deficits in social interaction and communication. They have very limited social life and activities in comparison with a normal person. Some of the behaviour such as; they avoid making eye contact with others, have difficulty communicating with speech or with gesture, tend to play or hold the same object such as ball, pencil or balloon, like to spin objects, indicates needs by gesture and resist change in their routine. Based on the statistic, the rate of autistic has increased. In 1990, the rate was for every 10,000 children, 4 are diagnosed with autism. However in 2008, for every 150 children, one child is diagnosed with autism. In 2011, there are about 47,000 people with autism in the country.



I believe the number could be more, taking into consideration on the rural areas and the lack of awareness of our society on the symptoms/characteristics of autism. As a parent of a child with autism, I shared the difficulties in getting my son to a proper school that specialized in special education for autistic children. I recalled 10 years ago, when the doctor told us that he is autistic. It was such an alien word to us; we have zero knowledge about it. Back then, information on autism was very limited. The hospital did provide a list of personal therapists and a handful of centres that provide early intervention programmes for children with autism. So we went through the list, notably



I was quite saddened with the fact that these centres operates separately and do not share collaboration with other centres as well. Each centre has different structure of administration and educational programmes. Moreover, these centres do not have proper building like our school buildings. We were given limited options of which centres to choose from, we do not know which one is better than the others, there are not such ratings; it is just word of mouth from other parents, we are not sure how will our child develop and what to achieve given the years ahead. So it was very frustrating as we do not have a proper standard guide on the best way possible to set our child for his development path. I'm sure many parents like me shared quite the same experience. Hence after years of trials and errors, currently I think NASOM is the best school in Malaysia that provide programme for autistic children; I found their trainers/teachers are very well experience and caring towards their students. They operate as a non-profit organization; they have good administrative structure and their programmes/trainings that cover from children to adulthood.


With the announcement from our first lady, I am hoping the plan to set up a school similar to the famous Ivymount School concept will become a reality. This is the hope for every parent like me and also the hope for the people suffering from autism. With that, I am sure the standard of education programme of autism would be also increased, the methods and trainings would be improved and diversified, more resources and information would be shared and provided to the related parties. Hence this would able to equip our children and young adults to achieve their highest level of development, potential and independence to live life to the fullest and play their role in the society.

Friday, June 8, 2012

Happy Mother's day & Happy 72nd Birthday Mak!!

13th May 2012 is Mother's Day, and 25th May 2012 is my mom's birthday, her 72nd!!.  My mom had gone through a lot in caring for us, and I am sure she is proud of all her children have become today,  I know there is no way we could repay her for all the sacrifices she did in raising us, but we should remind ourselves to show our appreciation to our mother and prayers for her well-being.

I wished I could do more for her in making her life more comfortable and happier. I know buying a cheapo cake definitely would  make the cut, hope she understands..my finance stat is not pretty good these few years hihihi...  My prayers may my mom will always be happy and in a serene mood as always.  Thanks Mak for being there for us..and always support and love us through tick and thin..I know in the past, I'm such a "basket" and hurt your feelings a lot..yep! I know a LOTTT of times..forgive me, I'm truly sorry. All my love and prayers for you Mak.